


At the beginning of June 2007, Bianca was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia or ALL for short. This was approximately 2 weeks before she turned 4. The diagnosis turned our world upside down and we were completely devastated. Not only did we have to make a lot of adjustments and changes, but we did not have the luxury of time to make those decisions, it was simply a matter of jump in and do what we needed to do.
This blog is about Bianca and her treatment as well as some of the things the family gets up to.
We are constantly amazed at the courage Bianca shows throughout the process and how she just does what she needs to without complaining. She is just a typical four year old who loves being a big sister to Caitlyn (born February 2007).
It is a bit of a bitter-sweet experience: Every day that we get through is a day that we won, it is a day closer to the final day of treatment, but it was also a day that we lost, a day where Bianca couldn’t do what she used to do or perhaps couldn’t see a friend because of her low levels.
But we made the decision that we would remain positive and that we would run this race one step at a time.
4 comments:
Hello,
I saw your comment on Sean's blog. I thought I would hop over and say hello. You have beautiful children! I will be popping in and out to say hi, if that is ok and praying for you all.
They are such dolls!
Your daughters are beautiful!! Hope your steroid week is almost over and that it was an easier one for you and Bianca.
Rosemary NY USA
Very pretty girls in their outfits!
Urgh... Dex....
Tristan goes to clinic on the 12th so that is when we get our next 5 day round of them.
I feel like they are keeping him a little chubby. We had an appointment for some extra assistance (a program in my state that he qualified for with his leukemia) and they do a weight and height and iron test etc.
Then they give you guidelines of what to feed your kid how to help them etc. But they are mainly for lower income but if you have a medical card you can get it. So not the norm to deal with special needs kids.
Anyways... of course they tell me that he is big for his age. His weight is in the 94% which is not really great. Then they talk about what he drinks and tell me to limit things etc.
I know they are just doing their job and do not know my kid but it is hard when I know his weight is due to his steroids. And I am not going to limit anything about his drinking with his meds. He needs fluids. Sure we pick 100% juices and not sugar drinks etc. I know that.
I just start thinking sometimes... those steroids really are a pain in the butt. half the month he pudges out, gets moody and all the normal world think is, man that kid is acting bad and eating way too much. What kind of mother "she" must be. Short of wearing a sign... I just feel sad somedays knowing what people think but wishing they would assume the best in me.
The other day Tristan had a nice bruise on his eye. Total boy but he bruises much easier then my daughter does. We got drilled by an old lady at the icecream store about "that is a nasty looking bruise, how did he get that!?"
if only people understood.
sorry to ramble on your blog.
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